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forearm friday: anthony cuocco

forearm friday: anthony cuocco

the best thing about the internet and social media is that lots of guys show off their arms – sometimes intentionally, sometimes just incidentally. anthony cuocco is someone i came across on youtube a couple years ago and i was instantly hooked. he’s got big, 

the songs next door may 2020

the songs next door may 2020

i must have been feelings like new takes on psychadelia this month. between the multiple songs from olivia tremor control (all from “dusk at cubist castle” – a favorite album of mine) and the multiple songs from woods, things are a little weird. my favorite 

forearm friday: levi cash

forearm friday: levi cash

there’s a fair amount of variability in what i like when it comes to forearms, but the one factor that is (almost) universally consistent is the presence of hair. it doesn’t have to be a lot of hair – whatever is naturally there is fine 

the trials of van occupanther

the trials of van occupanther

the minimum criteria for an album to make my list of favorites is that each and every song belongs on the album. there are no songs you want to skip, no songs you think could have been left off the album. after that, an album 

all-corn cornbread (with blueberries)

all-corn cornbread (with blueberries)

food is one of the ways i express my creativity. i have a bunch of cast iron skillets and i love finding new things to make using them. lately, i’ve been into making cornbread. i knew i wanted to make a cornbread using all corn 

forearm friday: freddy flavas

forearm friday: freddy flavas

despite the fact i fuck dudes, i tend to prefer straight porn over gay porn. i could list a lot of reasons why, but that’s not why we’re here. today’s forearm friday is freddy flavas. i first caught him and his forearms in some movies 

african violets

african violets

when i was a kid, i spent a lot of time with my grandparents at their home in suburban boston. my grandmother loved to garden and it showed – there were gardens along the front, back, and one side of the house; along the front 

my first time making studio porn

my first time making studio porn

they say you never forget your first time but i’ve forgotten most of mine. i do, however, remember the first time i made a porno movie for a major studio – a bareback gangbang for treasure island media. i was going to be one of 

the songs next door april 2020

the songs next door april 2020

i start each month’s mix on the 8th of the month before, and publish it on the 8th – so april’s mix was started at the beginning of march and reflects my listening until the 8th of april. this was a month unlike any other 

sex work and my love life

sex work and my love life

a while back, i made a video about how i got into sex work and invited you to ask any questions you wanted. you did! here i am answering a question about whether i’m in a long-term relationship and how sex work impacts my love 

how to work from home when you never have before

how to work from home when you never have before

with the coronavirus pandemic upon us and the push to socially isolate, many of us are working from home for the first time ever. working from home can be exciting – you can work in your underwear! you can look at porn in the middle 

the songs next door march 2020

the songs next door march 2020

it’s the 8th of the month so it’s time for my monthly playlist! for the second month in a row, there are quite a few bands with more than one song on the list including metallica, royksopp, the beach boys, and liars. the hightlights on 

making red wine vinegar

making red wine vinegar

my grandmother was special to me. she was magic as far as i was concerned. she made clothes for the family. she made bread and jam, spaghetti sauce and a mean lamb leg. she had a huge outdoor garden with vegetables, fruits, and herbs along 

why i’m breaking up with albolene

why i’m breaking up with albolene

every bator recognizes the white plastic tub with the blue lid – albolene, the “cold cream” that gets used on more dicks than faces. for as long as i can rememeber, it’s been the go-to lube for bators when we’re getting handsy with ourselves. recently, 

forearm friday: pedro mendez

forearm friday: pedro mendez

i have conflicted feelings about using pornhub – there’s a lot of pirated material on there, and as someone who makes his money making videos, i always am in support of paying for your porn. what i love about pornhub is that they do have 

the future (of gin) is female

the future (of gin) is female

what i love about gin is the variety of flavors gin can have. sure, it’s got some traditional ingredients – things like juniper and coriander, maybe some kind of citrus peel – but after that, gin can be whatever the person making it wants it 

forearm friday: asilva.me

forearm friday: asilva.me

because i like strong, powerful forearms, guys who have clearly been hitting the gym tend to pique my interest. there is, however, this thing where some guys who spend time in the gym also shaves their bodies to “show the muscle better” and that sometimes 

the songs next door february 2020

the songs next door february 2020

it’s the 8th of the month and that means it’s time for febraury’s episode of the songs next door – my monthly playlist of the songs that are tickling my fancy at the moment! at 50 songs, this is one of the bigger monthly playlists 

forearm friday: max arion

forearm friday: max arion

the greatest thing about technology these days is that in an instant you can sign on to the internet and connect to guys with great forearms from all over the world – and speaking of international forearms, today’s forearm friday is all about max arion 

my top 3 led zeppelin albums

my top 3 led zeppelin albums

when i was in 6th grade i went to my first school dance and the night ended with “stairway to heaven” – as it would at literally every single dance through 8th grade – most of the other music was whatever pop was popular at 

is masturbation sex?

is masturbation sex?

“i know it when i see it” – potter stewart masturbation is the best thing ever. seriously! think about it – it’s free, you can do it by yourself AND you’re the best at doing it, you can’t catch anything, you don’t need special equipment 

how (and a little bit about why) i became a sex worker

how (and a little bit about why) i became a sex worker

one of the most common questions i get is “how did you become a sex worker?” so i made this video to tell you about how i became a sex worker! towards the end, i talk a little about why i became a sex worker 

forearm friday: paul wagner

forearm friday: paul wagner

there’s a lot to love about paul wagner’s forearms – first of all, dudes who have sandy blond or light light brown hair and furry forearms make me weak in the knees – it’s probably my favorite combination and his arm hair changes from light 

forearm friday: sergey moroz

forearm friday: sergey moroz

sergey is a russian gymnast and bodybuilder that i first saw a few years ago in one of his videos on youtube – not only does he have a killer body that he seems to love to show off, he’s got incredibly amazing forearms – 

my thing for forearms

my thing for forearms

when it comes to what turns us on, we all have our “thing” and my things is forearms. for as long as i can remember, my biggest turn-on has been forearms – from my earliest memories, before i had a vocabulary to understand my sexuality 

japanese chai

japanese chai

i love music and i’ve always got one ear open for new (to me) music – most of the time, i use npr to find out about new bands and albums and songs because they have outstanding music programming (especiallly all songs considered) and do 

citrus herb marinated olives

citrus herb marinated olives

when i was a kid, olives came in a metal can, were matte black, and tasted like bitter metallic salt – i couldn’t understand why anyone would want to eat them and i was even more mystified when i tasted olive oil and liked how 

the songs next door january 2020

the songs next door january 2020

i listen to a lot of music – old favorites, new (to me) music, or giving some stuff another spin – a couple years ago i started making a monthly playlist both to share with my friends and to serve as a musical journal – 

my favorite album is pony express record

my favorite album is pony express record

my favorite album of all time is pony express record by shudder to think. here’s how i first heard it and why it’s my favorite. i used to get cmj magazine in the 90s when it came with a mix cd and that was my 

pilot

pilot

welcome to my blog! my name is eric hassan. for the past 6 years, i’ve been making bator porn for my site thedudenextdoor.com. what i love about it is that i get to show that “sex” and “sexy” are a lot more than a hard